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S06.E13 & E14: Tell-All

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On 1/7/2019 at 11:53 AM, Drogo said:

Here.. watch Asuelu.

Oh - Asuelu punching his own head is disturbing on second view. Maybe it’s to stop him from punching her. Honestly - if it was me, I’d probably be thinking about it.

The first time I’ve ever found Leida even slightly amusing is her reaction near the end.

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5 minutes ago, Honey said:

You mean the Larissa with the dead tooth, and the bad skin?  Yeah, I don't see any natural beauty.  She gross.  Inside and out.

Well Larissa didn't have a man willing to pay for her dental care.  But overall I think Larissa is so much prettier in the face than Fernanda, who I think has bulldog jaw.

You can fix teeth, you can see a dermatologist,* but man...that jaw!

However mileage varies, and the jaw doesn't stand out until they do a profile shot and then whoa!

* - I accept that none of this will happen until Larissa gets a job because I know Colt/Debbie aren't trying to pay for that!  She will be lucky if she gets on Colt's medical insurance!

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4 hours ago, not you again said:

Well in my opinion, the only reason he didn't go from trying to leave the country with the baby to actually leaving the country with the baby is he found out at the embassy that he wouldn't be allowed to do so.

He appeared to have every intention of doing so, and as a PP said Olga's very obvious relief when he told her she could keep the baby (just typing that gets my hackles up) it seems this was not made-up drama in Olga's mind.

He flat out said he wanted to take the baby. Many times. Regardless of whether he played it up for a story or not, the fact he would even consider stressing Olga out like (being portrayed in that way) that shows his character. 

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Ok I call shenanigans on the plane ✈️ incident. Larissa would never go out in public looking like that, they dressed her poorly to give more impact to her "dressing up for her enemies" storyline. TLC wanted to create some drama, I wouldn't be surprised if the cast was told to gang up on them. They wanted to recreate the Anfisa/Pao dynamic.

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The Tell All mostly reinforced my original assumptions about each couple’s personality disorders I mean traits. The only person I still like is Asuelo, who I will adopt as my permanent man-child so he can follow me around and say “SHHHH!” whenever someone annoys me. 

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7 hours ago, bravofan27 said:

More things I've learned on Social Media:

1) Johnathan recently declared bankruptcy

2) Leida only agreed to date Erik if he would agree to be on the show (this he admitted during a joint interview with a newstation)

3) Erik's ex-wife did an interview and said Erik drinks too much and is a womanizer. Ledia appartently called the Jenica dumb and slow and now and Jenica doesn't want to spend time there. The ex is not going to let Jenica go over there anymore. (Erik would have to take her to court to get custody, they only have a verbal agreement).

4) Leida tried to get a boyfriend to adopt her son before she came to the US so she could be kid free, and she didn't want her parents to raise him

5) Leida's son can't speak because she never taught him and he spent all his time with baby-sitters in Japan and they ignored him

6) Steve has a Gofundme account to pay for Olga and the baby

7) Larissa has two kids from two ex-boyfriends. One was adopted by an aunt, and the other is with her dad

8) Ashley has lupus

Jonathan declaring bankruptcy is actually sad.  He has a solid career and has worked presumably for many years.  Did he spend all of his money on Fernanda?  It seems like precious few people on this show actually have any type of appropriate financial resources.

I wonder why Leida didn't want to leave Alless with her parents.  And what about her ex-husband?  Was he completely unwilling to look after his own son.

Regarding breastfeeding... I did it.  I'm a big proponent of doing it in private or public.  I don't see it as sexual at all.  But hubby tells me that there is something attractive about it to some men because it is a sign of fertility and health in a woman.  And quite frankly, that makes sense.

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I just watched Tell All part 1 today. Why were Coltee and Larissa late?  Aren’t there direct non-stop flights from Vegas to New York?  Why was Coltee complaining that he was traveling all day?  They must have gotten off on the layover and missed the flight to New York. I don’t blame the other couples for disparaging Coltee and Larissa. If they could make it on time so should C & L. Rude couple. 

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4 hours ago, sasha206 said:

Yes, thank you!  I think far too often we give the 90 Day Fiances a break b/c they are from other countries and attribute everything to cultural differences.  I think there are also far too many "on the spectrum" armchair diagnoses.  Sometimes people are just sociopaths, socially uncomfortable, awkward, not intelligent.  

Asuelo's constant tears, and then his strange outsburst when there was arguing going on now makes me wonder if the Asuelo is violent and got fired b/c of an altercation with a female employee at the resort is actually true.

Early on, I felt embarrassed by him, for him, and sad for him.  After watching him for a while, I can see why the sister is freaked out by this union.  

Bingo.  If Asuelo was American people would be roasting him.  Also, he worked at a resort and encountered American and foreign tourists all the time.  I don't think he is as simple as people make it seem. 

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3 hours ago, eatsleep said:
3 hours ago, gingerella said:

I'm sorry but this simply is not true. When I lived in Southern Africa region nearly all the households were female-headed and men went around impregnating women and being proud & loud about their abilty to get a woman pregnant but it was totally not expected that they would step up and actually be a parent, let alone give anything monetary to raise said child(ren), and most didn't. In fact, most kids I knew didn't know who their fathers were. Sure preachers preached 'family values' of a two parent home but those were/are 'Christian' values and didn't take into account the current social norms. Not saying I approved of that, but that's how it was. In other regions of Africa at that time, men were responsible fathers, just not in the region I was in. So no, it's not everywhere.

What specific culture was this?

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10 minutes ago, lucy711 said:

I wonder why Leida didn't want to leave Alless with her parents.  And what about her ex-husband?  Was he completely unwilling to look after his own son.

There is some speculation that her former husband married her as a favour.  Aless is actually the result of a relationship (or one night stand) she had in Japan and the wedding/marriage was just to legitimize her pregnancy.  That would be a believable explanation as to why he doesn't pay child support or see Aless.  

I'm guessing that Leida doesn't have the greatest relationship with her parents - they probably are soooooooooo done with her - and that she is probably worried they will turn Aless against her.

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Interesting that they film in New York.  I agree with whoever said that Larissa would not face ever let herself be filmed without makeup.  

But that's a pretty long flight, IMO, like 5 hours if you get a direct flight?  I'd wanna be comfortable.

I dont know why she even checked a bag at all.  UA has some funky luggage policies, but don't most airlines allow you a small roller bag and a purse/small backpack?  She should have split everything between the two carry-ons.  Especially since she could take up most of Colt's carry on space. 

She didn't need that much makeup since they had hair and makeup at the reunion.

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5 hours ago, Drogo said:

She probably knows Asuelu has two settings:  Uncontrollable Tears and Finger Guns.  In short, he's exactly the kind of guy Low didn't want for his daughters. 

Shit, even Terrible Little Steven arrived in Russia and immediately started spending most of his limited funds to get Olga set up with everything Richie would need. 

Asuelu couldn't understand why Steven wanted to hear 'thank you' because Asuelu never did anything for Kalani besides knock her up, so he's never expected to hear thank you from her. 

LOL at tears and finger guns.....I liked Ansuelu until the tell all. There is something definitely off about that guy. I also don't see any chemistry or genuine affection between him and Kalini. The whole situation is odd. 

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1 hour ago, lucy711 said:

Jonathan declaring bankruptcy is actually sad.  He has a solid career and has worked presumably for many years.  Did he spend all of his money on Fernanda?  It seems like precious few people on this show actually have any type of appropriate financial resources.

I wonder if he really did have a solid career.  It wouldn't surprise me if he is one of those guys that wants everyone to think he is rolling in the dough and then got into major credit debt that led to the bankruptcy?  

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54 minutes ago, RealReality10 said:

  Especially since she could take up most of Colt's carry on space. 

You'd be surprised how much room a 56D bra takes up in a carry-on. 

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12 minutes ago, sasha206 said:

I wonder if he really did have a solid career.  It wouldn't surprise me if he is one of those guys that wants everyone to think he is rolling in the dough and then got into major credit debt that led to the bankruptcy?  

Real estate can be very feast or famine, there is tons of competition and it takes a long time to get lifelong clients who will recommend you or want to use you for every transaction.

Maybe he reinvested in property and the value went up or down.  But he shouldn't be living paycheck to paycheck.

10 minutes ago, Drogo said:

You'd be surprised how much room a 56D bra takes up in a carry-on. 

LOL!  Colt's bra probably could be a carry on ;)

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Jonathan may have declared bankruptcy to prepare for his impending divorce. 

 

Eric being a drunk is no surprise - he always looks wasted or hungover. I wonder what his initial plan with Leida was for this show? Some sort of Green Acres/I Love Lucy/Overboard mashup with the kooky Indonesian Princess and the poor but brave and chivalrous war hero?

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5 minutes ago, spankydoll said:

Jonathan may have declared bankruptcy to prepare for his impending divorce. 

 

Eric being a drunk is no surprise - he always looks wasted or hungover. I wonder what his initial plan with Leida was for this show? Some sort of Green Acres/I Love Lucy/Overboard mashup with the kooky Indonesian Princess and the poor but brave and chivalrous war hero?

Those are great ideas, but it may not have gone further than "hey I can make extra drinking money!"

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2 hours ago, RealReality10 said:

Where is the tell all filmed?  

I assume NYC. 

Here's handy list of TLC tweets

https://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/90-day-fiance-tell-all-secrets-get-behind-the-scenes-details/
 

2 hours ago, Hannigram said:

I just watched Tell All part 1 today. Why were Coltee and Larissa late?  Aren’t there direct non-stop flights from Vegas to New York?  Why was Coltee complaining that he was traveling all day?  They must have gotten off on the layover and missed the flight to New York. I don’t blame the other couples for disparaging Coltee and Larissa. If they could make it on time so should C & L. Rude couple. 

see link above to TLC tweets...flight cancellled etc (if TLC ain't lyin').  Note other people have commented on bad weather on the dates.

ETA: Another factor for lateness....Colt and Larissa spent 3 hours in the green room

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Eric's forehead crease matches his lips exactly! It looks like it could talk! image.thumb.png.dd918afa4d211f956c7eca6fccfae3ef.png

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1 hour ago, Drogo said:

You'd be surprised how much room a 56D bra takes up in a carry-on. 

I'm not one of those old lady professional bra fitters who can tell your size just by looking at you in a baggy shirt, but I'd guess that 56D is right on the money.

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1 hour ago, sasha206 said:

I wonder if he really did have a solid career.  It wouldn't surprise me if he is one of those guys that wants everyone to think he is rolling in the dough and then got into major credit debt that led to the bankruptcy?  

I think his friends are all wealthy and there is a lot of 'keeping up with the Jones' going on with him.  I think he did have a solid career but has piss poor money management skills. One dry month and boom, bankruptcy. He reminds me of an EX I had, all his friends came from wealthy families, university fully paid for etc. He used his Student loan money on a leather jacket. 🙄

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11 hours ago, Boofish said:

Instagram and Fashion Nova. She will probably never be on the cover of Vogue but the Target Spring collection mailer is not out of the question. I actually think Fernanda is pretty but someone said she looked like a sock monkey and now I'm questioning all my life decisions.

She reminds of the mascot for Red Dog beer (do they still make that?).

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5 minutes ago, sainte-chapelle said:

He used his Student loan money on a leather jacket.

Mr. Outlier used his on a pair of coffin-sized stereo speakers.  But it was national merit scholarship money, not a student loan, so no knock on his money management skills.

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8 hours ago, millennium said:

Forgive me, but hard-working people are being snatched by immigration officials and deported when they leave their apartments to buy a gallon of milk nowadays, but these 90-day con artists can move about freely and become social media sensations?   Something is seriously fucked up.

Indeed it is! THIS is where Immigration fails! No way even half of these fools should be given a greencard and allowed to stay. But.......Mo is still here and so is Luis etc, etc. 

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9 hours ago, Gobi said:

Just aim low.

Remember there were two Danielle lookalikes at Eric’s wedding.  That may be the caliber of the targets of his womanizing.  And remember his chunky best friend?  Perhaps a friend with benefits?

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9 hours ago, CoachWristletJen said:

Because she's Kalani, and her brain doesn't work good.

I have been wondering if she is not (ahem) slightly "Low IQ" (trying to be PC here). 

Her decisions are all just weird/her sister seems to act more like a mother-keeper-nurse

Nothing about her husband seems too strange for her........and it seems contraception is beyond her scope.

And breast-feeding without cover on TV? Well, while it's 'natural', and I know I'm OLD.....I  felt uncomfortable for the crew etc. (It was a lot more discreet in my day) 

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On 1/7/2019 at 11:49 AM, RealReality10 said:

So, I don't get why everyone was so mad about Colt and Larissa being late.  If they were just sitting around and waiting for them, I'd get it, but they were busy taping segments without them until they arrived.

I have watched the reunion shows for all sorts of trashy reality TV shows - bad girls club, real housewives, mob wives - and I know that they ALWAYS save the most dramatic characters for the end and they fill up the first part of the reunion shiw with boring filler.

 

Your first paragraph answers your question.  They weren't happy being the boring filler.

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2 hours ago, sainte-chapelle said:

LOL at tears and finger guns.....I liked Ansuelu until the tell all. There is something definitely off about that guy. I also don't see any chemistry or genuine affection between him and Kalini. The whole situation is odd. 

His eyes always seem bloodshot foo. The whites are pink.

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6 hours ago, CoachWristletJen said:

Just glad I don't have to watch Ricky get that smarmy fake sad look on his face every time he got caught hurting a woman.

While walking around looking like a dork in his fanny pack.

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8 hours ago, Drogo said:

Sometimes people are just assholes.  I agree it does a disservice to those with an actual diagnosis to lump people behaving badly in with them, based purely on bad behavior.

 I would imagine some people are both on the spectrum and assholes at the same time.

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54 minutes ago, ChiCricket said:

I would imagine some people are both on the spectrum and assholes at the same time.

If there's an Asshole Spectrum, Cole, Jonathan, Jay, Eric and Steven are all very "high functioning"

edited to add..l didn’t mean to leave the women off the list. IMO, everyone this season but Olga and Asuelu are somewhere on the Asshole Spectrum. 

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On 1/8/2019 at 4:19 PM, Jennifersdc said:

She thinks it must be staged. I told her she underestimates how many Americans are willing to humiliate themselves for a chance to get on TV. It’s pathetic for them, but great for us! You must check out Nicole and Azan. Danielle and Mohammed 2.0. I’m explaining On Demand to my sister so she can catch up.

Oh - and don’t miss Love After Lockup. IMO - it may even be better.

And the new season of Married At First Sight just started!  It's snarkalious.

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56 minutes ago, magemaud said:

If there's an Asshole Spectrum, Cole, Jonathan, Jay, Eric and Steven are all very "high functioning"

I fixed that for ya! I don't think you meant to say Steven is high functioning at anything, did you?

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3 hours ago, magemaud said:

Eric's forehead crease matches his lips exactly! It looks like it could talk! image.thumb.png.dd918afa4d211f956c7eca6fccfae3ef.png

So you mean to tell me that with all the photo filters leida uses, she can't find one to fix Eric's forehead crease?  Selfish!

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I noticed that Eric's father had the same forehead crease. To be fair, he looks more like an older brother than his father.

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On 1/6/2019 at 11:20 PM, Dance4Life said:

She is sneaky, too......especially getting pregnant in America.

 

Really? I've seen nothing but graciousness from Olga.  I've found her to be lovely in every way. And I don't think she got pregnant on purpose. She's so young and probably made a reckless choice with birth control. I would love to trade her in Ritchie to come to the u.s. and let Steven go to Russia. I had such high hopes for both of them at the beginning, but Steven has become so controlling. And you treated Olga horribly after Richie's birth, he was rude to her and dismissive of her and clearly had no idea what she was going through as a new mom. I definitely like and respect Opga the most of all the 90-dayers.

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On 1/7/2019 at 9:57 AM, PinkFlamingo said:

It was weird seeing Kalani staring off into space while slowly patting Aseulos leg like someone calming a child. I was thinking someone needs to hug that poor guy and then when Jon did I was cheering for that guy. 

Agreed.  I think Kalani is very self-centered and didn’t like the attention off of her.  Interesting that he financially supports his parents.  Puts it into perspective that Kalani, a spoiled princess who gets everything handed to her by her father, was complaining that the guy who lives in a hut with no walls and supports his parents and probably most of his siblings (I forget how many there are, but there are a lot) doesn’t buy diapers.  He should’ve done more financially for Oliver than he did, but given the huge disparity in their situations I think it was wrong of her to complain to her sister about it.  Kalani should’ve brought this up with Asuelu instead.

During the opening segments where they showed clips from the start of the season Steven was all dead eyes during the Olga flashback but the minute his flashback was shown his face lit up.  Steven comes off as a narcissist who only loves himself.

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12 hours ago, spankydoll said:

Some sort of Green Acres/I Love Lucy/Overboard mashup with the kooky Indonesian Princess and the poor but brave and chivalrous war hero?

Tofutti....where are you when I need you?  Tofutti Cline?

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I don't think it's sad if Jon filed for bankruptcy. If he was stupid enough take trips and overspend to impress Fernanda and look like Mr. Big Shot Real Estate Guy, why should he get off the hook from that? Pay your fucking bills. I don't know if it's Chapter 7 or 13. I can understand filing Chapter 13 if your spending gets out of control because that has you paying your debts off, just in a planned out sort of way, but Chapter 7? Eff that. He's a young, able bodied guy that can work and should have to pay for his foolish overspending, not skate away from it. If the RE market in Lumberton is not bringing in enough cash, then-- to quote Judge Judy-- "AH-MOVE!" He posted on his Instagram last night: "What a difference a day makes. First week back to work. Feels good. 4 deals in the hopper and 2 closings this week."

A medical catastrophe or other event that there's no hope getting out from under is one thing. That is truly what Chapter 7 is for. This is something else entirely. 

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^^ see that's how real estate can work, suddenly you have 2 closings, 4 deals in the hopper....money coming in!

Then you could have nothing for months.

Which is why it's smart, IMO for people in that business to have a steadier income source like rentals or something like that.  Or put the money someplace smart for the rainy months.

I'm sure he owns his house, which is a great start.  But I suspect he gets thar awesome lump sum of money and spends it on stuff.

Example, did you really need a Jeep for Fernanda to just sit in the driveway while she was in Mexico and couldn't drive it?

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18 hours ago, Kiss my mutt said:

For someone to be a womanizer, don’t actual women need to be involved? If he had available women he wouldn’t be hitting up potential brides overseas. He does look better, I’m impressed he got rid of that dent but he still looks older than 40. He needs to work on that meth mouth next. 

Ashely should start a gofundme for a vibrater if she’s so hungry for the D. Heck, I’ll buy her one outright if she kicks jay to the curb.  But in one scene she’s was balking at how much sex Jay wants.  Is she really only 30 and has a 17 year old?  A lifetime of bad judgement. 

 

14 hours ago, Drogo said:

You'd be surprised how much room a 56D bra takes up in a carry-on. 

 

12 hours ago, StatisticalOutlier said:

I'm not one of those old lady professional bra fitters who can tell your size just by looking at you in a baggy shirt, but I'd guess that 56D is right on the money.

I'd worn a 56D (actually DD), in my very very heavy days.  You can put your head inside one of those cups easily, so no, Coltee doesn't have THAT big of a rack.  I'd peg him at a 38/40 B.

1 hour ago, Ijustwantsomechips said:

Tofutti....where are you when I need you?  Tofutti Cline?

I LOVE that movie!

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15 hours ago, RealReality10 said:

Where is the tell all filmed?  

New York City. I know this only because we saw Colt and Larissa going through the Holland Tunnel.

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I just watched Tell All part 1 today. Why were Coltee and Larissa late?  Aren’t there direct non-stop flights from Vegas to New York?  Why was Coltee complaining that he was traveling all day?  They must have gotten off on the layover and missed the flight to New York. I don’t blame the other couples for disparaging Coltee and Larissa. If they could make it on time so should C & L. Rude couple. 

My understanding was that the flight they took was on time, however at some point Colt and Larissa decided not to participate in the tell all. They skipped the flight they were booked on, changed their minds again and decided to come to NYC after all and caught a later flight. So even with that flight on time,  they were  going to be late.  

And yes, there are direct flights from NYC to Vegas and it is about five hours. 

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11 hours ago, ChiCricket said:

 I would imagine some people are both on the spectrum and assholes at the same time.

Truer words have never been spoken. However the assholes on the spectrum will tell you they can't be held accountable for their asshole behavior because...spectrum. 

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45 minutes ago, RealReality10 said:

 

Example, did you really need a Jeep for Fernanda to just sit in the driveway while she was in Mexico and couldn't drive it?

To catch the trophy fish you need a good lure 

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17 hours ago, Jennifersdc said:

Oh - Asuelu punching his own head is disturbing on second view. Maybe it’s to stop him from punching her. Honestly - if it was me, I’d probably be thinking about it.

The first time I’ve ever found Leida even slightly amusing is her reaction near the end.

That was truly disturbing to me and it makes me believe that rumor that he was fired from the resort for a physical altercation with the female coworker.

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