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S06.E13: The Thread That Broke the Shahs' Backs

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1 hour ago, Mindthinkr said:

I liked the decor of the Winter party but they needed music (a good DJ or live) to liven things up. Dancing was missing. 

Wasn't the decorator Kevin on RHOC once doing a pink party for LVP? I also thought he was the over the top decorator for Anna Nicole Smith as well. 

I liked Gretchen's dress but it needed to be hemmed. They must be side friends of GG as they always seem to show up at her events. 

The play was just a trail run for friends and family to see if it would be viable to be staged for real. It wasn't. 

Asa looked big in the butt and thighs when she was laying on her side. I think her post pregnancy pictures are photoshopped or she's had lipo. I doubt the latter.  Her aversion to unnatural and fake things makes me gag as it's all for show. 

Haven't Reza and Adam already adopted a child? I'm surprised they didn't ask GG for an egg donation. Then again they know her history of mental health and drinking issues. 

I don't think you're allowed to do any alterations on a loaner dress from renttherunway.com dress...LOL!   

Kevin has been on several Bravo shows - mostly, RHOBH (he's done several parties for Lisa Vanderpump, including her daughter's wedding) and I think he's also been on Vanderpump Rules.  He drives me crazy, but his over-the-top parties look gorgeous!  

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2 hours ago, politichick said:

Now you know Reza got a prenup. He's not dummy and I think he actually works hard for his money. The only reason Adam can contribute $50K to the baby plan is because he earned it on this show.

And Reza knows it, given his dismissive sneer of Adam's contribution. I wonder how often he throws being the one with the money in Adam's face?

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Two things about Reza - 

1) What was his whole beef with Adam's phrasing with something being a life or death issue? I thought it was Adam's reaction to the cats walking on the Hermes blanket, and telling Reza not to overreact, but I was only half paying attention, so I'm not sure.

2) The very end, when Reza said he wasn't surprised about GG and Shalom splitting up... not that that was a secret; we know that now, but of course, one last chance for him to look like a total douche this season, which he does so well.

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3 hours ago, WireWrap said:

I think Asa is wearing heavy duty spanxs in her after birth photo ops, no way did she lose that butt, those thighs or her pregnancy weight in 8 days after giving birth.  LOL

Especially since she had that ass and those thighs before her pregnancy! She was always meaty below the waist. 

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Just now, bichonblitz said:

What? Where did you hear that? 

Crap. I can't remember where but it had a reference to the Jeff Lewis and Gage adoption as well. I remember thinking of my, so fast...thinking that we would have seen the baby this season. I guess I was mistaken. 

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8 minutes ago, Mindthinkr said:

Crap. I can't remember where but it had a reference to the Jeff Lewis and Gage adoption as well. I remember thinking of my, so fast...thinking that we would have seen the baby this season. I guess I was mistaken. 

Last night on WWHL, he was asked when the baby thing was going to happen and Reza stumbled around and said after he sells his house. Andy gave him a big "sure, yeah, right" smirk and so did Mike. I think Reza is full of it. He doesn't want kids. Truth is, I don't think he wants to spend $160,000 on a surrogacy for a kid(s) that aren't even biologically his because in the back of his mind he's still not sure if this relationship is going to last. Adam, get a clue! 

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I fit fast forward when Reza arrived at Asa's house. Thus I did not have to hear one word she said. Much better that way.

MJ's wall with writing, looked like boobs with nipples.

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I haven’t been able to see all comments...but I just saw end of episode...Gretchen Rossi from RHOC...

...and OMGAWD...could swear she was wearing the exact SAME DRESS she was wearing at Victim’s birthday party....when she JUST HAPPENED to ask Rickyif he knew whether Eddie was gay...

stupid biotch...she can’t stop trying to get her huge face seen somewhere on TV....she’d die if someone called her out on wearing same thing twice...being the star she is...she won’t shut up about how higher her Qrating is...ugh go away....and take Vicki with you...

sorry didn’t intend to highjack convo!

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1 hour ago, Shellbell59 said:

I haven’t been able to see all comments...but I just saw end of episode...Gretchen Rossi from RHOC...

...and OMGAWD...could swear she was wearing the exact SAME DRESS she was wearing at Victim’s birthday party....when she JUST HAPPENED to ask Rickyif he knew whether Eddie was gay...

stupid biotch...she can’t stop trying to get her huge face seen somewhere on TV....she’d die if someone called her out on wearing same thing twice...being the star she is...she won’t shut up about how higher her Qrating is...ugh go away....and take Vicki with you...

sorry didn’t intend to highjack convo!

Thx for mentioning the dress. I thought it was the same one too.

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Did anyone else catch Vida sitting all by her lonesome at the Winter ball? Not even the other matriarchs seem to be able to stomach that vile woman's company for any appreciable amount of time. 

Sitting through even mere moments of Reza's "play" was pure torture. I think the naval commanders at Guantanamo Bay should be alerted; here's a better, violence (and mess free) alternative to whatever means they're currently employing.

Asa has completely checked out. She used this show to social climb and make her fortune, and now that she has achieved a bit from both columns she's basically telling the rest of the cast they mean nothing to her. It's kind of a shame because she always did bring the entertainment factor, but now that her (ridiculous golden necklace) mask is off, I don't think I can ever unsee her true colors. She's a charlatan who played the long con.

I caught a bit of WWHL even though I cannot stand Andy Cohen. I'm curious as to why Reza called Shervin the biggest con on the Shahs (more so than Asa?) Shervin's not a particularly interesting character but knowing the real guy behind the persona might change that.

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12 hours ago, AnnieBananie said:

Two things about Reza - 

1) What was his whole beef with Adam's phrasing with something being a life or death issue? I thought it was Adam's reaction to the cats walking on the Hermes blanket, and telling Reza not to overreact, but I was only half paying attention, so I'm not sure.

2) The very end, when Reza said he wasn't surprised about GG and Shalom splitting up... not that that was a secret; we know that now, but of course, one last chance for him to look like a total douche this season, which he does so well.

  1. You are correct. Reza was overreacting about the cat walking on that ugly blanket on the couch. After Adam told him to calm the fuck down and get some perspective, Reza started talking about divorcing him.
  2. Yeah, Reza could barely contain his glee over GG's short-lived marriage at the end. I wonder if that has anything to do with the state of his?
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55 minutes ago, Ubiquitous said:
  1. You are correct. Reza was overreacting about the cat walking on that ugly blanket on the couch. After Adam told him to calm the fuck down and get some perspective, Reza started talking about divorcing him.
  2. Yeah, Reza could barely contain his glee over GG's short-lived marriage at the end. I wonder if that has anything to do with the state of his?

Reza comes off like the type who's shallow enough to consider divorcing someone over disrespecting a fugly Hermes blanket. That said, why in the fuck even have multiple rescue cats in your place if you're going to freak out over them possibly hurting the stuff in your condo? That gaudily overstuffed place will be trashed in no time((a'la Carole from RHofNYC's once lovely apartment she gave up for cat rescues)), so he'd better check his own damned self.

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7 minutes ago, Sun-Bun said:

Reza comes off like the type who's shallow enough to consider divorcing someone over disrespecting a fugly Hermes blanket. That said, why in the fuck even have multiple rescue cats in your place if you're going to freak out over them possibly hurting the stuff in your condo? That gaudily overstuffed place will be trashed in no time((a'la Carole from RHofNYC's once lovely apartment she gave up for cat rescues)), so he'd better check his own damned self.

Inanimate things (the Hermes blanket) mean more to Reza than precious life. What ever is he going to do when (if) they have a child and the child goes to draw on their walls (or spills juice on that blanket)?  

He needs to be the owner operator of his own personal museum....alone. 

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2 hours ago, Mindthinkr said:

Inanimate things (the Hermes blanket) mean more to Reza than precious life. What ever is he going to do when (if) they have a child and the child goes to draw on their walls (or spills juice on that blanket)?  

He needs to be the owner operator of his own personal museum....alone. 

I know this is going to be an unpopular opinion but here goes nothing, lol... 

I totally agree that Reza is a self-absorbed, materialistic you-know-what.  However, none of this is new.  Reza has always cared about and wanted very nice and expensive things.  If this isn't new to us I don't know why it should come as a shock to Adam that Reza cares so much about his things.  He has worked hard and hustled for what he has and I don't blame him for wanting to keep those things nice.  I think that is his sticking point with Adam in that fight they had.  Adam gets to enjoy all these nice things that Reza feels he has worked hard for but in Reza's eyes Adam doesn't put much effort into taking care of them.  He's cavalier about all these items and how if they get messed up they can be replaced, no big deal, but, according to Reza, he is the one who is out there working for all these things and footing the bill for them.  It would be like if I saved up my money and went and bought a really nice, expensive, cashmere sweater and then my husband just threw it in the washer with his jeans and when I got upset just told me it's just a material thing and it can be replaced and to quit making a big deal about it.  I would be upset too.  I know it's just a thing and not someone's life but it doesn't mean I didn't work hard for it and that it shouldn't be taken care of properly.  Just because it's not important to Adam doesn't mean it shouldn't be important to Reza.  I think Reza just wants Adam to be considerate of his feelings too even if it seems stupid or insignificant to him.  And, quite honestly, I think the fight about the blanket is really just a symptom of Reza's feelings about the baby.  Reza doesn't seem keen on surrogacy at all and Adam seems unwilling to even consider Reza's feelings on the matter and wants to push his way.  Reza threatening or intimating divorce was just wrong, period.  

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2 hours ago, Sun-Bun said:

Reza comes off like the type who's shallow enough to consider divorcing someone over disrespecting a fugly Hermes blanket. That said, why in the fuck even have multiple rescue cats in your place if you're going to freak out over them possibly hurting the stuff in your condo? That gaudily overstuffed place will be trashed in no time((a'la Carole from RHofNYC's once lovely apartment she gave up for cat rescues)), so he'd better check his own damned self.

If Reza gets this upset about a cat, can you imagine his reaction to what a child would do?

 

5 minutes ago, Peper81 said:

I know this is going to be an unpopular opinion but here goes nothing, lol... 

I totally agree that Reza is a self-absorbed, materialistic you-know-what.  However, none of this is new.  Reza has always cared about and wanted very nice and expensive things.  If this isn't new to us I don't know why it should come as a shock to Adam that Reza cares so much about his things.  He has worked hard and hustled for what he has and I don't blame him for wanting to keep those things nice.  I think that is his sticking point with Adam in that fight they had.  Adam gets to enjoy all these nice things that Reza feels he has worked hard for but in Reza's eyes Adam doesn't put much effort into taking care of them.  He's cavalier about all these items and how if they get messed up they can be replaced, no big deal, but, according to Reza, he is the one who is out there working for all these things and footing the bill for them.  It would be like if I saved up my money and went and bought a really nice, expensive, cashmere sweater and then my husband just threw it in the washer with his jeans and when I got upset just told me it's just a material thing and it can be replaced and to quit making a big deal about it.  I would be upset too.  I know it's just a thing and not someone's life but it doesn't mean I didn't work hard for it and that it shouldn't be taken care of properly.  Just because it's not important to Adam doesn't mean it shouldn't be important to Reza.  I think Reza just wants Adam to be considerate of his feelings too even if it seems stupid or insignificant to him.  And, quite honestly, I think the fight about the blanket is really just a symptom of Reza's feelings about the baby.  Reza doesn't seem keen on surrogacy at all and Adam seems unwilling to even consider Reza's feelings on the matter and wants to push his way.  Reza threatening or intimating divorce was just wrong, period.  

Agreed. I also get the feeling Reza thinks Adam isn't pulling his weight, financially, and resents being the one to do all the work. Reza seemed rather dismissive of Adam's $50 contribution to their new home and having to sell his party house in Palm Springs. If memory serves, we've seen Reza do this I previous seasons, but at the moment I cannot think of anything specific.

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1 hour ago, Peper81 said:

I know this is going to be an unpopular opinion but here goes nothing, lol... 

I totally agree that Reza is a self-absorbed, materialistic you-know-what.  However, none of this is new.  Reza has always cared about and wanted very nice and expensive things.  If this isn't new to us I don't know why it should come as a shock to Adam that Reza cares so much about his things.  He has worked hard and hustled for what he has and I don't blame him for wanting to keep those things nice.  I think that is his sticking point with Adam in that fight they had.  Adam gets to enjoy all these nice things that Reza feels he has worked hard for but in Reza's eyes Adam doesn't put much effort into taking care of them.  He's cavalier about all these items and how if they get messed up they can be replaced, no big deal, but, according to Reza, he is the one who is out there working for all these things and footing the bill for them.  It would be like if I saved up my money and went and bought a really nice, expensive, cashmere sweater and then my husband just threw it in the washer with his jeans and when I got upset just told me it's just a material thing and it can be replaced and to quit making a big deal about it.  I would be upset too.  I know it's just a thing and not someone's life but it doesn't mean I didn't work hard for it and that it shouldn't be taken care of properly.  Just because it's not important to Adam doesn't mean it shouldn't be important to Reza.  I think Reza just wants Adam to be considerate of his feelings too even if it seems stupid or insignificant to him.  And, quite honestly, I think the fight about the blanket is really just a symptom of Reza's feelings about the baby.  Reza doesn't seem keen on surrogacy at all and Adam seems unwilling to even consider Reza's feelings on the matter and wants to push his way.  Reza threatening or intimating divorce was just wrong, period.  

Yes and No, that cat was Reza's, not Adams cat. It is Reza that is crazy about cats and he brought them into the small apartment with them and their dog(s), not Adam. Reza makes more money than Adam because he gets a bigger Bravo check than Adam does. LOL

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4 hours ago, Peper81 said:

I know this is going to be an unpopular opinion but here goes nothing, lol... 

I totally agree that Reza is a self-absorbed, materialistic you-know-what.  However, none of this is new.  Reza has always cared about and wanted very nice and expensive things.  If this isn't new to us I don't know why it should come as a shock to Adam that Reza cares so much about his things.  He has worked hard and hustled for what he has and I don't blame him for wanting to keep those things nice.  I think that is his sticking point with Adam in that fight they had.  Adam gets to enjoy all these nice things that Reza feels he has worked hard for but in Reza's eyes Adam doesn't put much effort into taking care of them.  He's cavalier about all these items and how if they get messed up they can be replaced, no big deal, but, according to Reza, he is the one who is out there working for all these things and footing the bill for them.  It would be like if I saved up my money and went and bought a really nice, expensive, cashmere sweater and then my husband just threw it in the washer with his jeans and when I got upset just told me it's just a material thing and it can be replaced and to quit making a big deal about it.  I would be upset too.  I know it's just a thing and not someone's life but it doesn't mean I didn't work hard for it and that it shouldn't be taken care of properly.  Just because it's not important to Adam doesn't mean it shouldn't be important to Reza.  I think Reza just wants Adam to be considerate of his feelings too even if it seems stupid or insignificant to him.  And, quite honestly, I think the fight about the blanket is really just a symptom of Reza's feelings about the baby.  Reza doesn't seem keen on surrogacy at all and Adam seems unwilling to even consider Reza's feelings on the matter and wants to push his way.  Reza threatening or intimating divorce was just wrong, period.  

I don't see your reply as unpopular. I think it was another refreshing way to look at things and I'm inclined to agree with your rationale. I remember an ex husband. He treated things of mine, like my house, with slap happy abandon. He'd put holes in the walls for things (carpentry was not his strong suit) and I'd sit on the couch looking at the repairs in the drywall that were now needed (seriously...a gaping hole bigger than necessary) and feel probably a lot like you said that Reza could feel. My anger level was probably in direct relation to our crumbling marriage (lol not to mention my wall). I just never thought too much about it until your comment. Education happens every day every where. You should enlighten Reza just the way that you turned my light bulb on. 

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I think Adam was looking for a sugar daddy and that was fine with Reza until they were married. Now Reza seems to want more of a partner. I also think the kid thing is causing huge problems.

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Thanks for the confirmation, Ubiquitous. I thought it was indeed about the blanket, but being a rational person, I thought, "There's no way that Reza is getting fucking hysterical over a damn blanket." But of course, it's Reza, and he is in no way mentally prepared for what a child is going to do to his house. 

Everyone here's made excellent points about Reza's and Adam's relationship, and I think that because of their major differences - money and children - they're ultimately headed for splitsville. These scenes confirmed that.

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I was never a huge fan of Jessica, but after this episode I am #TeamJessica. A lot of Middle Eastern men are mama's boys. The way Mike continuously treats his mom - like a prom date - is behavior that shows that down the road, his future wife will have to compete with Mom - Mom's cooking, Mom's lifestyle, Mom's way of folding his laundry. The other end of the spectrum are men who disrespect their mother, which is another huge red flag. Mike's mom really had some nerve, but she was doing it out of pride because the divorce and outing of her son's adultery was a huge embarrassment on the whole family. How about this ? HOLD YOUR CHILDREN ACCOUNTABLE FOR THEIR ACTIONS MAYBE. "I took her to the doctor, I made her soup, I did this, I did that." Well, Jessica's mother is passed, so that was the least this woman could have done for her daughter in law. How about how Jessica, who was educated, beautiful, stylish, held down a good job, and came from a megawealthy family,  wasted her youth on a lying cheater, or converted to a new religion for him, or basically worshipped him at every step, until it was too much and things were getting really obvious ? I looked at her instagram and saw she is dating a new guy, who is really cute, wealthy, and seems to be infatuated with her. I hope she finds happiness. 

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On 10/17/2017 at 5:33 AM, Ubiquitous said:
  1. You are correct. Reza was overreacting about the cat walking on that ugly blanket on the couch. After Adam told him to calm the fuck down and get some perspective, Reza started talking about divorcing him.

I like nice things, but I cannot stand those ostentatious Hermès blankets and pillows.  They are ridiculously expensive and are just for someone who want to try to display their wealth.  It doesn’t even coordinate with their decor.

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1 hour ago, Emmeline said:

I like nice things, but I cannot stand those ostentatious Hermès blankets and pillows.  They are ridiculously expensive and are just for someone who want to try to display their wealth.  It doesn’t even coordinate with their decor.

To be honest, nothing in their decor coordinates with anything else in their decor.  Their place looks like everything came from a fire sale at a Hobby Lobby.

Reza dresses the same way.  It doesn't have to look good, just has to have a designer label.  He was on WWHL last week, and he looked like an absolute clown--shorts with knee socks, a shiny, plasticky jacket.  The socks were Gucci (he listed the labels of everything he had on), and he probably wore the shorts so as not to hide the Gucci G's on the socks.  It's too bad Ringling Brothers shut down.

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@Matias130 I'm completely #TeamJessica. She's not perfect and she's just as materialistic as the rest of them, but the girl really tried. She had leukemia as a teen. Her mom died, but she didn't sit there complaining or taking it out on everyone else. She went all in. She converted. She learned how to cook Persian dishes from Mike's mom. She was learning Farsi. She put up with his asshole friends and Mike's feckless attempts to be an entrepreneur. And the first person to call Mike out for cheating was GG, but this all ends up on Jessica because... I guess Mike's mom is mad because Jessica refused to give him a pass and made him admit that he cheated. But he did. At every point during their relationship, he was cheating. GG said he slept with her sister right before he proposed to Jessica. He cheated before and during the marriage. Calling him out on it was a mitzvah. He needed to be told that he was doing shitty things.

If Mike's mom wanted to be a half decent person, she would have equivocated and said that she didn't want them back together because they aren't good for each other. Jessica can try to be a good wife, but Mike can't be a good husband.

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On 10/16/2017 at 7:23 PM, Rahul said:

Did anyone else catch Vida sitting all by her lonesome at the Winter ball? Not even the other matriarchs seem to be able to stomach that vile woman's company for any appreciable amount of time. 

Sitting through even mere moments of Reza's "play" was pure torture. I think the naval commanders at Guantanamo Bay should be alerted; here's a better, violence (and mess free) alternative to whatever means they're currently employing.

Asa has completely checked out. She used this show to social climb and make her fortune, and now that she has achieved a bit from both columns she's basically telling the rest of the cast they mean nothing to her. It's kind of a shame because she always did bring the entertainment factor, but now that her (ridiculous golden necklace) mask is off, I don't think I can ever unsee her true colors. She's a charlatan who played the long con.

I caught a bit of WWHL even though I cannot stand Andy Cohen. I'm curious as to why Reza called Shervin the biggest con on the Shahs (more so than Asa?) Shervin's not a particularly interesting character but knowing the real guy behind the persona might change that.

I haven't seen the last episode yet or the reunion. Going to catch up this week but THAT (Vida sitting alone. Hahaha!) is priceless! I can't wait!

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On ‎10‎/‎20‎/‎2017 at 10:04 AM, Emmeline said:

I like nice things, but I cannot stand those ostentatious Hermès blankets and pillows.  They are ridiculously expensive and are just for someone who want to try to display their wealth.  It doesn’t even coordinate with their decor.

I believe someone once described their décor as a "clown car explosion".

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Mike is a cheater and his wife needs to apologise to his mother? Misogyny from men is one thing, but misogny from other women is taking it to another level. An unacceptable level.

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6 hours ago, CrinkleCutCat said:

Mike is a cheater and his wife needs to apologise to his mother? Misogyny from men is one thing, but misogny from other women is taking it to another level. An unacceptable level.

I have a different take on this whole matter. Mike was already the black sheep of his family as the only brother without a professional graduate degree or steady career, but his infidelity and subsequent divorce after an abbreviated marriage has brought shame to the Shouhed family, especially within their Persian social circles. 

I believe Sue is very aware of the fact that her son is a man whore and philanderer. However, she has to much pride and ego to publicly acknowledge this. Accepting Jessica back into her family would mean she might even have to apologize to her daughter-in-law, which is she not ready or unwilling to do. Rather than tuck her tail between her legs and have egg on her face, Sue has chosen to reject Jessica. Sue would more readily welcome a new daughter-in-law to whom she did not have to show any remorse or deference to, given her son's many transgressions.

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On 10/22/2017 at 9:37 PM, Ubiquitous said:

I believe someone once described their décor as a "clown car explosion".

That was me.  But I meant it in the nicest possible way.  o;)

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4 hours ago, Rahul said:

I have a different take on this whole matter. Mike was already the black sheep of his family as the only brother without a professional graduate degree or steady career, but his infidelity and subsequent divorce after an abbreviated marriage has brought shame to the Shouhed family, especially within their Persian social circles. 

I believe Sue is very aware of the fact that her son is a man whore and philanderer. However, she has to much pride and ego to publicly acknowledge this. Accepting Jessica back into her family would mean she might even have to apologize to her daughter-in-law, which is she not ready or unwilling to do. Rather than tuck her tail between her legs and have egg on her face, Sue has chosen to reject Jessica. Sue would more readily welcome a new daughter-in-law to whom she did not have to show any remorse or deference to, given her son's many transgressions.

Good point.

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On 10/16/2017 at 4:54 PM, Ubiquitous said:

And Reza knows it, given his dismissive sneer of Adam's contribution. I wonder how often he throws being the one with the money in Adam's face?

Let's see...24 x 7 x 365 x ...

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The thing that infuriated me about what Mike's mom is that she said something like "things happen" to explain Mike's infidelity that Jessica should have just gotten over. However, when it comes to "forgiving" Jessica she says "there are just somethings you can't forgive" AAAARRRRGGGGGHHHHHH

I have been blessed with two lovely mothers-in-law since my husband's parents divorced and remarried years ago.

I totally agree that Reza is jealous about the positive changes GG has made.

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On 10/24/2017 at 3:59 PM, Rahul said:

I have a different take on this whole matter. Mike was already the black sheep of his family as the only brother without a professional graduate degree or steady career, but his infidelity and subsequent divorce after an abbreviated marriage has brought shame to the Shouhed family, especially within their Persian social circles. 

I believe Sue is very aware of the fact that her son is a man whore and philanderer. However, she has too much pride and ego to publicly acknowledge this. Accepting Jessica back into her family would mean she might even have to apologize to her daughter-in-law, which is she not ready or unwilling to do. Rather than tuck her tail between her legs and have egg on her face, Sue has chosen to reject Jessica. Sue would more readily welcome a new daughter-in-law to whom she did not have to show any remorse or deference to, given her son's many transgressions.

I get this, but I think saying something like "You two are not a good fit/match" is a way to be diplomatic without assigning blame to either party. 

23 hours ago, NYCFree said:

The thing that infuriated me about what Mike's mom is that she said something like "things happen" to explain Mike's infidelity that Jessica should have just gotten over. However, when it comes to "forgiving" Jessica she says "there are just somethings you can't forgive" AAAARRRRGGGGGHHHHHH

I just think there is way to get across the point that a reconciliation with Jessica is a non-starter without denigrating her. Sue could say that "too much has happened," "there are too many hurt feelings," or "Mike and Jessica are not a good match." It's not that hard, but Sue has chosen to nominally preserve her dignity in the LA Persian community, like these people don't know that Mike is a cheating fuckwit, while showing her ass to the rest of the world.

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