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scruffy73

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  1. scruffy73

    S08.E07: Can I Trust You?

    There is no need to be nasty. I made a mistake.
  2. scruffy73

    S08.E07: Can I Trust You?

    I think the “she” is Jasmine not Kate since the husband is Will.
  3. scruffy73

    S16. E12. The Last Link

    I remember nothing about the actual case but I did like the bracelet thing. And I understood Gibbs being hurt that a family friend left without saying goodbye. He was a child and he was attached. He is not required to have gotten over it just bc it has been so long. He was hurt. I cried at the end when he gave the older guy a new bracelet and said he would make sure he would be buried with all of them.
  4. scruffy73

    S08.E05: 'Til Mud Do Us Part

    Again with the arms. Not everyone is concerned about how big or small their arms are, and especially how others judge them. Something that is being overlooked in the Jasmine/water/mud thing is her hair. A lot of black women don’t want to get their hair wet and certainly not get mud in it. Hair washing and styling is not a trivial process. Either Jasmine has a weave or natural hair and neither is just snap-your-fingers easy. Kristine probably doesn’t care because her weave is already terrible lol
  5. Nope, man “weaves” are very popular these days. It is amazing to watch. It’s like they glue a whole other scalp to their heads. Google it.
  6. scruffy73

    S08.E04: Strangers in Paradise

    Maybe it didn’t fit his ring finger. also, a friend of mine intentionally wears his ring on his middle finger. He is very, VERY odd so there is that.
  7. scruffy73

    S08.E04: Strangers in Paradise

    You and your husband must have similar values around money. When one spouse has a “spend what’s left after bills” mindset, without any understanding that saving is required, you don’t give them access to all the family money. When you are married to a gambler, you don’t give them access to the family money. There are more reasons why you don’t dump all the money in one pot and pay everything out of it. Switching gears - I am bothered by so many criticisms about Jas showing her arms. Just because YOU wouldn’t do it doesn’t mean SHE should be embarrassed by HER body and cover up. Not all thick women are embarrassed by their bodies. Not all thick women feel the need to cover their bodies. Not all thick women want to be slim. Hell, some slim women want to be thicker. Maybe only black people feel like being thick is a good thing but when I saw Jas’s curvy body in that wedding dress, I said “dammmmmmnnnn” bc she was sexy as hell. And I’m a straight woman.
  8. scruffy73

    S08.E04: Strangers in Paradise

    The Queen’s weave looks kinda crunchy sometimes so maybe she doesn’t wear a wrap or a cap. And Jas having a cotton wrap is odd too. She has a weave too, right? She might not be as concerned about it as those of us that have to manage hair not in protective styles.
  9. scruffy73

    S08.E04: Strangers in Paradise

    Most Black women wear scarves or bonnets to bed to protect our hair. It is not about fashion or what would look pretty waking up. Having dried, crunched up hair from just sleeping on a cotton pillowcase is far from delightful.
  10. In Philly you might hear “nah’mean” (know what I mean). A LOT!!!
  11. scruffy73

    S08.E03: Part 2+ Married at Second Sight

    With Amber showing up as a blonde as opposed to her normal brunette, I thought it was just a matter of time that Dave DID know her from the gym. But I was denied that “oh shit”. i think Luke had a great chance of knowing a lot of people at least by face just through his business. I think he is disappointed that Kate is, while pretty, generic when he likes exotic - whatever that means - women. And after doing his events he knows what is out there and he got what he didn’t want. I still can’t understand the match after hearing Cal say that they would work IF he found her attractive. Who does that? You don’t hook people up with folks you are HOPING they will find attractive, especially if the hook up is a legally binding marriage.
  12. I didn’t recognize her. She looks younger without the makeup. good luck to her and Jon
  13. scruffy73

    S08.E01: First Comes Marriage, Then Comes Love

    Absolutely! Let me meet a Spelman sister and see if we aren’t hugging up on each other!!
  14. scruffy73

    S08.E03: Part 2+ Married at Second Sight

    A whole ass. He looked like he was judging her and finding her lacking. He looked like he was patronizing her and her mom and it pissed me off. I already feel sorry for Kate.
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    S08.E01: First Comes Marriage, Then Comes Love

    Yikes!!! it looks like she has lost more than edges. It looks like she is bald under that wig. She might actually have alopecia. Naw, the wigs and weaves (and the braids underneath) have eaten her hair off. 😢😢
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