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  1. Rebecca

    Kailyn: Kail Smash!

    @Stusan That too! But, I’d particularly love to hear her justification for that clickbait usage.
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    S09.E10: This Can Go One of Two Ways

    I found one too but you can only see one picture of her and her husband and you can’t even see her friends, lol. There’s about 15 for Adam...why the hell would anyone want to catfish and pick him to pretend to be? *shudder*
  3. Rebecca

    Except Chelsea (and Cole)

    Being in his brother’s wedding, Aubree obviously has a relationship with her uncles and aunts on that side, which was nice to see! It also helps us understand more that she has a real family on that side, even if Adam isn’t really involved. Hopefully they help to lessen that blow for her just by being in her life. Maybe seeing that Adam doesn’t do much with ANY of his family (he’s in zero pictures on any of the wives’ social media but they and their husbands are on each other’s) helps her to realize it’s HIM and he’s like that with everyone, not just her. Seeing all of this makes me feel like Cole adopting her and “taking her away” from the rest of the Linds would be a horrible idea. She’s an established member of the family, I can see now why she acts the way she does when they bring it up. There are pictures of Aubree playing with her cousins on her aunts’ social media as well. The Linds are a lot more than just Adam...I hope Chelsea realizes that! This also gives insight into why Adam gave up custody of Paislee yet didn’t do that in regard to Aubree. I feel like the rest of his family would pay his child support for him, if it came down to it, to keep her in their family and lives. His siblings all seem very family oriented. I was surprised that Chelsea follows all three wives on Instagram. It kind of bothers me that she knows they’re (seemingly) great people and that they have a relationship with her daughter but she still is pushing Aubree to be adopted by Cole and she’d love it if Aubree no longer wanted to be a Lind or have anything to do with them. Before seeing all of them it was easier to think they were all probably dirt bags or something and that Aubree might be better off without them but now I think it’s just ADAM himself that she’s better off without. I think the rest of the siblings are positive people to have in her life.
  4. Rebecca

    Except Chelsea (and Cole)

    Since the Linds are pretty elusive to us all, I decided to see what I could find about them online. Most of info was originally posted in the latest episode thread but it makes more sense here and this breaks it down easier, plus some people probably aren’t looking at that thread much since it’s days old. Adam has 3 brothers. Darren: Most of the info on him is from his wife’s FB so it’s a bit scarce compared to the rest. He’s been married for 16 years and has 3 kids. He looks to be around 40. It appears he works in technology. His wife seems really lovely. They’ve lived in different states but I think they live in S.D. now. Robert: Another older brother. He’s 31 and is also married with 2 kids and one on the way. (That info comes from his wife’s FB, so no link.) He was also a baseball player in college. From 2011: http://www.georgiastatesports.com/ViewArticle.dbml?DB_OEM_ID=12700&ATCLID=204776160 At the bottom of that link this info is provided: “Robert Lind is one of four children to Vern and Donna Lind. Born on January 26, 1988, in Sioux Falls, S.D. Has one older brother, Darren, and two younger brothers, Sam and Adam. His brother Sam is currently playing baseball for Central Arizona College. Currently majoring in biology.” So that also confirms that these are Adam’s brothers. He talks a little about his upbringing on this link: http://www.georgiastatesports.com/ViewArticle.dbml?DB_OEM_ID=12700&ATCLID=205135595 There are kind of a lot of Rob/Bob/Robert Linds in that area so I can’t find what he does for a job currently. They have lived in different states too but are back in S.D. Sam: The youngest Lind child. He’s 28, lives in Arizona and is married to a (beautiful!) Brazilian woman. They got married a year ago in S.D. and Aubree appears to have been the flower girl in their wedding. Sam’s wife and Chelsea DeBoer follow each other on Instagram and she tagged Chelsea in the pictures Aubree is in. Adam wasn’t in any of the wedding pics, even though Aubree was. They had another wedding in Brazil and Adam is also missing from all those pics, though the rest of the family (not Aubree) was there. As of 2017 he’s a coach for his old college’s baseball team: http://www.vaquerosports.com/sports/bsb/2017-18/releases/20170908wj83d7 He was a big baseball player in college and even played professionally before turning to coaching. More about him: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.argusleader.com/amp/12903201 Also, two of Adam’s brothers are married to women named Chelsea...but they both spell it differently! 😆 They all appear to be successful and normal and very unAdam-y. Chelsea follows all three of Adam’s brothers’ wives on Instagram, which is kinda surprising. The brothers themselves don’t have social media. One other thing is that most of them (his brothers and their wives) are super into fitness and lifting etc, like Adam is/was.
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    S09.E10: This Can Go One of Two Ways

    Massive digging has led to the fact that Adam has at least one actual brother. He’s 29 (but so is Adam? Is he a twin?! EDIT: Sam is actually 28, I think the thing below says 29 because he turns 29 this year still.) and named Sam. He’s newly married and lives in Phoenix. I found his wife’s Instagram, she is Brazilian. They got married in Brazil and it looks like Adam didn’t attend (there are pics of the rest of the family). They also had a wedding in SD a year ago and Aubree was there! Looks like she was the flower girl, the wife tagged Chelsea, she and Chelsea follow each other too. It doesn’t look like Adam attended that wedding either. (I don’t think I should link to her page because she’s not on the show or anything.) Some proof it’s his brother: EDIT: There’s definitely at least one (much...I think he’s 38/39) older brother (Darren) too, who is married with 3 kids. I found his wife's Facebook but again, I don’t think I’m allowed to link it. This older brother is kinda HOT! He’s been married for 16 years and they look extremely normal in every way. (I’m an obsessive researcher with no plans for 3 more hours...I’m going to learn what I can about these mysterious Linds.) EDIT 2: Another older brother. They all seem so normal. What the hell happened to Adam? Here’s Robert, since this is public and widely accessible: http://www.georgiastatesports.com/ViewArticle.dbml?DB_OEM_ID=12700&ATCLID=204776160 He’s 31 and his bio on that site states that Donna and Vern have 4 kids - Adam, Sam, Darren and Rob. His bio also says that his brother, Sam, is (was, because this bio is from 2011) in college and plays(/played) baseball at school too. So all the other brothers are presumably college graduates. Adam is really the only absolute fuck up! From what I can tell the other three have had no issues. And no teen pregnancies. Here’s another article about Rob, he talks a little about his upbringing: http://www.georgiastatesports.com/ViewArticle.dbml?DB_OEM_ID=12700&ATCLID=205135595 EDIT 3: Wow, here’s Sam, his younger brother, since this is also publicly available: http://www.vaquerosports.com/sports/bsb/2017-18/releases/20170908wj83d7 He’s the new coach, as of 2017, of his old college’s baseball team. He’s also better looking than Adam! Apparently he was an amazing baseball player during his time at the school and played professionally (see article)! The whole thing practically is about what a hard worker Sam is. His bio on the college site: http://vaquerosports.com/sports/bsb/coaches/Jon_Wente?view=bio (looks like the wrong link but it’s not...no clue why it says Jon Wente.) Another article about him: https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.argusleader.com/amp/12903201 This all probably really bugs Adam! I’m really starting to think that Adam is the problem, not the Linds in general...otherwise the other sons would be messy as hell too. I wonder if Donna is just so flabbergasted about Adam and his behavior that she doesn’t know what to do? She’s definitely fucked up in her behavior regarding him but I have more empathy knowing that the other three aren’t like Adam. Sometimes bad kids happen to good people, I’m more inclined to think there’s some of that going on here now. I’m shocked, frankly, by this information, I would have assumed at least one of the other brothers would be “an Adam” too. I wonder how Adam gets along with his three much better looking, far more successful, hard working, normal life living brothers? Not well, I’m assuming. Too long, didn’t read: He has 3 normal, successful brothers. 😆 EDIT AGAIN: I’m at a grill out and since everyone is watching the stupid NCAA crap I’ve been in the corner still researching Linds... 🤓 #LiveYourBestLife Anyway, I just had to mention that 2 of the brothers are married to women named variant spellings of Chelsea!! How weird would it have been if Adam and Chelsea married?! 3 out of 4 brothers with the same wife’s name. Weird! Is that the only name in S.D.? So anyway, all 3 of Adam’s brothers are also married and 2 have kids.
  6. Rebecca

    S07.E15: Trouble in Lala-land

    Stassi has said a bunch of times that Katie works out way more than the rest of them...not sure if that means she works out once in awhile while the rest never do or if she’s going daily or what, though! Despite the fact I don’t think she’s fat, she doesn’t appear very toned. But neither do most of the cast. Lisa doesn’t have control over who is on the show, only who “works” in her actual restaurants.
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    Except Chelsea (and Cole)

    I think Cole genuinely means it and finds all the positive comments a great bonus. I can’t deny that he appears to enjoy the attention (wouldn’t most people love everyone telling them how great they are?) but that doesn’t mean what he’s saying is a lie. He’s never expressed being unhappy in his marriage or talked about “heifers” for wives...unlike Tyler. I think it could all go to Cole’s head but I don’t know that I think it has already.
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    S09.E10: This Can Go One of Two Ways

    That’s a good point! She may be afraid to offend Adam for fear he’ll cut them out and disappear. That probably sounds like a win to most of us but she is his mother and loves him, somewhat inexplicably. Adam is also an addict so maybe he only shows up randomly on occasion and she was just happy he came there and wasn’t dead. I wish we knew more about Donna. It’s hard to assign motivations and feelings to someone when we don’t “know” them at all.
  9. Rebecca

    The Conners Alphabet Game

    H is for “Have another shot of pancake, Roseanne!!”
  10. Rebecca

    S09.E10: This Can Go One of Two Ways

    I’ve only done a little research but I guess it’s not always that cut and dry. I’m not sure what other states this includes (probably not SD, in any case..) but Chelsea should consider moving to Colorado...it’s not that far.. https://info.legalzoom.com/legal-rights-stepparents-vs-real-parents-21583.html Sounds like this would qualify in “these jurisdictions.” I also think it helps the case that Cole is the involved father of Aubree’s brother and sister and Adam gave up custody of his other child. Plus, Aubree has basically never lived with Adam, except when he would mooch off Chelsea and live with her on and off early in Aubree’s life, whereas Cole has been consistently around and parenting the kids in their home for years. Adam can’t name her teacher, doctor or best friend. I bet Cole can, or at least knows some things like that about her.
  11. Rebecca

    Kailyn: Kail Smash!

    I know they all post clickbait but I don’t recall seeing any like this! I rarely look at her story...does she do this regularly? It’s really fucked to make $ off the death of an infant because people will click it thinking it has something to do with this idiotic MTV franchise that she’s on. That’s all the info given on the first page of the “article” - there’s so much clicking and ads, I stopped after a few pages. She’s an asshole to use this story.
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    The Conners Alphabet Game

    D is for Death. Sorry to be dark but some of the funniest episodes revolve around it. Roseanne and Jackie’s dad’s death: “So what you're saying is that, if she really loved him, she'd get the "White Rose", and if she doesn't... she'd get something with a twist tie, and the word "Hefty" on the side.” The death of the door to door salesman in their kitchen: Roseanne: “I think he's dead.” Dan: “Check again.” Roseanne: “I know how to count to zero.” (And, of course, Roseanne’s own death...not nearly as funny.)
  13. Rebecca

    Media: Lanford, IL Patch

    She’s a lead too, isn’t she? What is the justification for paying her less? I could see if Sara and Lecy made the same and John and Laurie made more but I don’t see why the other 3 leads get more pay than the 4th. Anyone?
  14. Rebecca

    Leah Messer Simms Messer Calvert Messer...She's 23

    I’m with you on the confusion over Leah and Jeremy and their relationship. I think the twitter thing is confusing because the poster is inarticulate (say it ain’t so!) but they’re saying that Leah shouldn’t make cracks about Jenelle in regard to her burning Kailyn’s “gift” because if Jenelle ever said anything back Leah would just sit there and cry. They’re probably referring to how awkward Leah got when Briana was confronting her about Kailyn last season at the reunion from hell.
  15. Rebecca

    Except Chelsea (and Cole)

    I think Cole enjoys the attention and he probably knows that Chelsea is into his public declarations too, so they’re both made happy by him posting such things. I wouldn’t be into it but if they are?
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