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  1. CaliCat

    S01.E06: One Shoe

    This is so true, and so well written. I wish more people agreed with us. It’s true that so many people don’t report crimes because of shame for their own behavior that might have contributed to it, which makes it all the more surprising that Debra has been so open with her own story. It’s a cautionary tale, though, and so gripping because most of us have been stupid at times, although not necessarily to the extent that Debra has. Thank goodness people as awful as Dirty John are rare.
  2. CaliCat

    S01.E05: Lord High Executioner

    Could you please explain how you know John killed his father from the show? I could tell his father was dying in the hospital, but I didn’t get that John had killed him.
  3. CaliCat

    S01.E03: Remember It Was Me

    This is so true. I guess everyone has to settle to some extent in relationships, but it’s unfortunate how much some people think have to settle for. And, yes, bringing kids into the equation makes the calculation much more complicated. I just assumed that the relationship was over after she found out about the affair, and when the drug-stealing came up, I wasn’t sure where it fit into the timeline at first. I wish they would do a better job of indicating the timeline. While the first wife seems smarter than Deb, I wonder if there were red flags that she overlooked that they’re just not showing.
  4. CaliCat

    S01.E03: Remember It Was Me

    I was surprised that first wife (Lynn?) apparently didn’t leave him when she found he was cheating, but finally left him when she found out about him steeling drugs.
  5. CaliCat

    S05.E15 Reunion Part 1 2018.07.19

    Oh dear, ZM. I am one of your biggest fans. We’re both British AND American (but I’m not South African.) You are funny and I love to laugh. But, ahem, I work for the government, and I generally try to do a good job and finish stuff, and I don’t want to work with Craig. So would you mind taking that back?
  6. I’m so sorry, ZW. I don’t know what else to say. It’s awful enough to hear about these things in the news. I can’t imagine what it’s like when it hits so close to home.
  7. I had to scroll up to see who wrote this—it’s brilliant! Then I thought, of course, @FilmNoir, I should have known. I don’t even like to swear, but now it’s my life’s ambition to become soigne as fuck!
  8. Lol to the bolded part. I Give a $20 bill to each of my cousins’ kids on their birthdays and Christmas. To make it seem more personal I tell them how much trouble it was to find just that particular bill, and read off the serial number. :-)
  9. Shouldn’t Ramona be in this group?
  10. CaliCat

    S10.E07: On an Island

    I think the term you’re looking for is “Machiavellic.”
  11. There’s not much in life that gets me as excited as a (or is it an?) @ZaldamoWilder post. If we’ve been knocked off the rails by your post, then I say we never should have been on the rails in the first place.
  12. I heard, “you’re drunk” the first time I saw it, but assumed I must have been wrong because the cc read, “you’re a drunk.” I assumed I heard it wrong. I believe Bethenny.
  13. CaliCat

    S10.E05: Tea for Tat

    Thank you for posting this. I actually think Carol looks absolutely beautiful in this video. I have always been strangely partial to overbites, though. I guess beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
  14. CaliCat

    S10.E05: Tea for Tat

    The incorrect use of “so-and-so and I” in a predicate bugs me, too. But in this case, “Scott and I” is correct. Here’s an explanation: https://www.quickanddirtytips.com/education/grammar/it-is-i-versus-it-is-me?page=all