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  1. Judi Sunshine

    S07.E14: Tom vs. Tom

    Yeah -- whoever started things, escalated things, was wrong, was right -- the inviting then disinviting is some middle-school bullshit. Even IN middle school, that is bullshit.
  2. I'm so happy for her!!! I knew it wasn't just Rand's influence to quit drinking, because she's been lamenting her problems with alcohol since before she was with him. This is so much better for her than dry drunking it on her own around a bunch of active drinkers. I bet she really thrives in the program. 🧡
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    S07.E12: PJs on the PJ

    All of this. I don't think Lala just got sober for Rand, because she's lamented having an issue with drinking since she joined the show. Or maybe since S5, but it's been awhile. As someone who finally quit drinking myself but took awhile to do it, I've felt her journey and was thrilled to read recently that she was five months sober. I really HOPE she's doing it for herself and the night of the hurricane-window shattering was just a catalyst. Doing it for another person rarely works. But it still really SUCKS to think you have a partner with you in the sobriety journey, only to have them flake out in a major way. Also yeah, with the cheating or at least cheating-tangential behavior o' Rand. Dating a cokehead alcoholic with a propensity for cheating is NOT fun; I've been there, and there often feels like they have different rules set for themselves that doesn't apply to others. And if you're dealing with someone who's those things, and narcissistic AND rich af? Chances are, there's going to be a lot more tits and ass around that most people don't have to give a pass to in their ostensibly monogamous relationships. I feel bad for Lala and really wish she would get together with not James per se, but someone who she bonds with like that -- as a friend and trustworthy companion. Girl already has money and she's smart. I think she would be financially just fine on her own, while living a more authentic life. Also (sorry, not sure how to do quoting within an edit and don't want to double post): " Stassi is a nice friend to her it was sweet to say 'I’m excited to be around you.'" ~ iloveit YES!!! Omg. In that moment, I wanted Stassi to come live with me and be my BFF. That made me cry, so sweet!!!!!
  4. Judi Sunshine

    SURly Staff In The Media

    My brother and SIL bought a big house because they loved it and they don't plan on having kids. Regarding a place being dated, I'd just love to have a place to call my own. As long as it's clean, paint it orange, throw down a shag rug, and put up some wood paneling -- I don't care! I'd just be grateful to have one.
  5. Judi Sunshine

    S07.E08: A Housewarming Divided

    I wish people would stop insinuating/flat-out saying that Ariana would get married and want kids, just not with Tom. Not every woman wants those things!
  6. Judi Sunshine

    SURly Staff In The Media

    I read them talking about their Vegas trip on Twitter and felt exhausted. Just one of the things on their long itinerary would have been enough socializing to last me a month or two!
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    SURly Staff In The Media

    Yuck.
  8. Judi Sunshine

    S07.E06: Love Thy Mother

    I LOVE "Impractical Jokers!" I'm right now proudly wearing my "Scoopski Potatoes" shirt! It's a hilarious show and they seem like legit nice guys. Joe's Twitter is constantly about uplifting others and I love him. Yay to IJ!!!
  9. Judi Sunshine

    S06.E10: Flamingos and a Dance-Based Exercise Class

    Not sure about Wendy, but Jill's first meeting is in the first ep we meet her. That's one reason I maintain my unpopular opinion of wanting the kids around, at least a bit. I love the overall shift to the AA ladies, but Christy's a much more sympathetic character as a mom, and part of the whole dynamic has always been that yeah Bonnie failed her, but she failed her kids too. That's a HUGE part of so many people's stories in AA and I think the show is missing out on a lot of material by abandoning their parent/child relationship nearly completely. I'd hoped to see them all grow together.
  10. Judi Sunshine

    S07.E04: Lisa's Dilemma

    Thanks, and back at you! And yeah, I totally agree with everything you said <3
  11. Judi Sunshine

    S07.E04: Lisa's Dilemma

    Thank you so much!!! <3
  12. Judi Sunshine

    S07.E04: Lisa's Dilemma

    I found this ep interesting in that for such an alcohol-centric show, it was like an ad for AA, if AA relied on promotion rather than attraction! James is getting fired for behaving like a troublemaking alcoholic; Lala is abstaining because she knows she has it in her too; James's mom is nine months and eight days sober...I had no idea she'd quit drinking and was so stoked for her that I went and found her on Twitter to say that's awesome, and she was really sweet in response. I'm nine months tomorrow, so to hear her out of nowhere say that made me burst into tears. I really hope James can follow her lead, because he's young and really does have so much potential. Alcohol really is "cunning, baffling, and powerful," and his inability to make the choice to abstain when he has SO much to lose if he drinks is a huge red flag. He and Lala kind of danced around the "will they or won't they" with sobriety in S5 and I hope she sticks with it and he gets there. It would be really cool if Lisa paid for him to go to rehab, a good one where he could work on his music and see how full his life already is without this destructive-to-him substance.
  13. Judi Sunshine

    S06.E08: Jell-O Shots and the Truth About Santa

    This ep was so good but so hard to watch. Anna Faris KILLED it, forced to just keep on going through this tremendous humiliation. Violet needs to go to an Al-Anon meeting, stat. My heart broke for Christy, but I loved the scene at the end with her and Bonnie; I lost it. <3
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    S07.E03: Either Him or Me

    She did call Lala a slut back in S4 but even then, it felt out of character for her.
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    S04.E04: Costume Competition

    Same here. And the baby stuff is only making me less interested in Amy. I really do love America Ferrera and the show though, so I'm hoping they get it together with her character.
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